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Sunday, January 24, 2010
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
2009
Another year has gone... and somehow I feel as if I have not accomplished anything truly significant... shit... But I did learn a few things from 2009 which include:
a) Do not believe everything you hear. I would like to say that some people ( I shall not name who ) have the craziest hobby which include toying with other people's feeling... Does it satisfy you when you know that you have somebody hanging on your every word? Well, I suppose it does... But that totally does not give you the right to lead people on!! You scumbag!!!!
b) Do not offer any advice whatsoever. Reason? Because nobody would listen to you, espeacially grown ups... The grown ups think that they are the king of the world and that they are never ever wrong so even when they come to you spilling out their guts, telling you their problems, I can 100% assure you they do not need your advice, nor do they need you to tell them they are in the wrong which they are... Basically, you're just there to be a listener and expected to agree to whatever they say plus give your sympathies on their miserable plight... And if you don't, well, they'll probably chop you up into pieces and stuff you inside the blender mix with a cup of shouting to season...
c) Stay close to your real friends. Friends can be classified as just friends and good friends. I can honestly tell you eventhough both categories are really important, your good friends are definitely worth your time and energy spent on them. Firstly, good friends would never betray you ( and I learnt that the hard way) whereas just friends are just in it for the benefits ( for example, car or english). Secondly, good friends would not just abandon you when they're busy and only think about you when they have nothing better to do. Again, this is from experience. Some people can just suddenly call you out of the blue and say,"Hey! I havent heard from you for a long time! I really miss you... Heres a box of chocolates for your chrismas present! And by the way, sorry for bailing out on you when you needed my help... but we're still best friends right?" yeah right... a******!!!!!
d) Keep one's mouth shut at all times to avoid any unnessary awkward situations. I got to admit sometimes my mouth just gets away wit me and start spewing out all sorts of rubbish that comes into my mind which is not pretty, I can assure you. This would result in me being stuck in a situation that is totally mortifying and awkward at the same time that makes me wanna dig a hole and scramble inside and hide for the rest of eternity (no, Im not kidding)
e) Will stick to something long enough to finish it. People keep screaming at me to finish the stuff that I started which in the end I don't, leaving me dissatisfied and the grumpy. I also know that usually the something that I have started is beneficial to me but somehow I think Im lacking the motivation to continue. Maybe I should find myself a muse...
All in all, 2009 is definitely an eventful year. I cant wait for 2010...
a) Do not believe everything you hear. I would like to say that some people ( I shall not name who ) have the craziest hobby which include toying with other people's feeling... Does it satisfy you when you know that you have somebody hanging on your every word? Well, I suppose it does... But that totally does not give you the right to lead people on!! You scumbag!!!!
b) Do not offer any advice whatsoever. Reason? Because nobody would listen to you, espeacially grown ups... The grown ups think that they are the king of the world and that they are never ever wrong so even when they come to you spilling out their guts, telling you their problems, I can 100% assure you they do not need your advice, nor do they need you to tell them they are in the wrong which they are... Basically, you're just there to be a listener and expected to agree to whatever they say plus give your sympathies on their miserable plight... And if you don't, well, they'll probably chop you up into pieces and stuff you inside the blender mix with a cup of shouting to season...
c) Stay close to your real friends. Friends can be classified as just friends and good friends. I can honestly tell you eventhough both categories are really important, your good friends are definitely worth your time and energy spent on them. Firstly, good friends would never betray you ( and I learnt that the hard way) whereas just friends are just in it for the benefits ( for example, car or english). Secondly, good friends would not just abandon you when they're busy and only think about you when they have nothing better to do. Again, this is from experience. Some people can just suddenly call you out of the blue and say,"Hey! I havent heard from you for a long time! I really miss you... Heres a box of chocolates for your chrismas present! And by the way, sorry for bailing out on you when you needed my help... but we're still best friends right?" yeah right... a******!!!!!
d) Keep one's mouth shut at all times to avoid any unnessary awkward situations. I got to admit sometimes my mouth just gets away wit me and start spewing out all sorts of rubbish that comes into my mind which is not pretty, I can assure you. This would result in me being stuck in a situation that is totally mortifying and awkward at the same time that makes me wanna dig a hole and scramble inside and hide for the rest of eternity (no, Im not kidding)
e) Will stick to something long enough to finish it. People keep screaming at me to finish the stuff that I started which in the end I don't, leaving me dissatisfied and the grumpy. I also know that usually the something that I have started is beneficial to me but somehow I think Im lacking the motivation to continue. Maybe I should find myself a muse...
All in all, 2009 is definitely an eventful year. I cant wait for 2010...
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